Use schema unification for item lists and improve support for empty item lists

[mdekstrand]

This fixes and simplifies support for empty item lists by more thoroughly using Arrow schemas and schema unification, removing some special-case logic for empty item lists, and adding tests for the case where all lists in an item list collection are empty (#1051).

Closes #1051.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 85.36585% with 6 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 89.69%. Comparing base (2b50f02) to head (ab99e29).
⚠️ Report is 8 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/lenskit/data/collection/_base.py	75.00%	3 Missing ⚠️
src/lenskit/data/items.py	88.00%	3 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #1053      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   89.67%   89.69%   +0.01%     
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  Files         223      223              
  Lines       15476    15476              
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+ Hits        13878    13881       +3     
+ Misses       1598     1595       -3     

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