dev-init: [] fix direnv discovery messages

[carsonRadtke]

The conditional for checking whether or not direnv exists on the user's machine was backwards. This PR fixes the check so the error message is appropriate.

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[DarkArc]

Merged as 158320e with an additional fix for a related inverted condition. Thanks!