branch-4.2 [refactor](nereids) Remove defer materialize

[englefly]

Cherry-pick of #62917 to branch-4.2

refactorRemove defer materialize

defer materialization is replaced by topn-lazy-materialization.
Unit tests: EliminateOrderByKeyTest (37) and OlapTableTest (11) pass; regression suites query_p0/sort and query_p0/topn_lazy/lazy_materialize_view pass.

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