chore: add dependency update delay settings

[marandaneto]

💡 Motivation and Context

Dependency automation should avoid opening updates immediately after packages are published. This adds the requested Dependabot cooldown and/or pnpm minimum release age configuration where applicable.

💚 How did you test it?

Not run (configuration-only change).

📝 Checklist

• I reviewed the submitted code.
• I added tests to verify the changes.
• I updated the docs if needed.
• No breaking change or entry added to the changelog.

If releasing new changes

• Ran pnpm changeset to generate a changeset file

[greptile-apps]

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[marandaneto]

#540