HiPO build user choice of BLAS on Apple

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Description

Checklist

• I have read the contributing guidelines
• This PR targets the latest branch
• Tests are passing
• Documentation was updated where relevant
• This PR is not primarily AI-generated (per the AI contributions policy in CONTRIBUTING.md)

Related issue

Closes #3160

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 73.23%. Comparing base (5cc2de2) to head (afb2d04).
⚠️ Report is 58 commits behind head on latest.

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage   73.22%   73.23%           
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  Files         445      445           
  Lines      108025   108043   +18     
  Branches    17318    17321    +3     
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+ Hits        79106    79127   +21     
+ Misses      28643    28640    -3     
  Partials      276      276           

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